Saturday, 29 October 2016

Its ok to...

Its ok to...
cry in front of people. 
be a sensitive person.
not be friends with people who have proven you wrong.
have a change.
tell people what you are thinking.
tell the truth.
eat that chocolate bar.
make mistakes. 
be different. 
have goals/dreams in live. 
have a chat. 

1) Its ok to cry in front of people
Whether that's your parents, friends, a teacher, anyone. And yes its perfectly fine to cry multiply times in a week/month in front of that same person. But please do not think you are wasting their time! So many people don't let things out because they are scared that they are wasting the other persons time. No you are not! 10 minutes of their day, is all it takes to let things out and you will feel so much better afterwards. They may not look like they care, However you are not being silly or anything. Its no ones fault that whatever going on in your head is there. We can not control what our brains think. 

2) Its ok to F.A.I.L
Fail means First Attempt In Learning. You could fail multiple times but you are learning and life is all about learning. So don't beat yourself up because of it.

3) Its ok to be a sensitive person
We are all different here, and we all take things differently. I am, myself, a sensitive person and things do hit me. But do not think that you are silly or pathetic just because you are the only one who have gotten upset because of it. 

4) Its ok to not be friends with people who have proven you wrong
Its true that friends don't stay. We all grow every day into another person as we are learning who we really are in life. Things change to make people change. People turn out to be different and its fine to say goodbye to someone. 

5) Its ok to have a change
Maybe that's in your fashion style, or haircut. Its perfectly fine to change. Its fine to change jobs, schools. If something making you down change it and don't worry about what other people think that's their problem.

6) Its ok to tell people what you are thinking
This links to number 1. If you want to tell someone how you feel about them, then tell them. Tell everyone!

7) Its ok to tell the truth
Tell people what have just happened, tell them everything. If something happens the next day about the same thing go and tell them. This could be told to anyone!

8) Its ok to eat that chocolate bar
Just eat it! Don't worry about the calories or if you have already eaten a chocolate bar today. We are not here to hate our body or hate what choices we have just made. We are here to enjoy life to the fullest! 

9) Its ok to make mistakes
We all make mistakes, whether thats solving a problem or doing something that has affected you in a way that you didn't think it would. Don't regret doing it, if someone has told you something about it that has made you cringe. Oh well, its fine. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES, its life. We are learning everyday.

10) Its ok to be different
Don't think you have to be the same as everyone else, as you don't. Its amazing to stand out from the crowd, I promise. People may judge at first but don't let that put you down.

11) Its ok to have goals/dreams in life
You are never too young to know what you would like to achieve in life. I already know what I would like to be when I grow up and theres nothing wrong with that.
'Never give up on what you really want to do. The person with bug dreams is more powerful than the one with all the facts'.

12) Its ok to have a chat
Chat about anything and everything, We live in a world where technology takes over us. Its fine to have a chat in person with someone, go to Starbucks, sit there for hours on end having a right old giggle, laugh. Its also ok to have a chat with someone over phone too.

I feel that these are some things that people struggle to come to terms with, I can relate to so many of these, as I feel like its not ok  to do something, as I don't know anyone else who has done what I have just did and I tend to put myself down and it plays over and over again in my head and I will cringe about it and regret doing it. But whats in the past, is in the past. And NO ONE should judge you from your past. 

Amy xx


  1. Hey Amy,
    I love this post! It was very real and a nice change. I'm currently going through number 4 so this was very helpful. Can't wait for more posts like this to come.

    1. Awwh, stay strong and keep positive! x

  2. I am so in love with this post, it's important to remind yourself sometimes that life isn't perfect you know, and things happen and that that's a part of life

  3. Great post,sometimes we feel trapped in certain thoughts and struggle to let go so posts like these are much needed for people like me who need reminding xx

  4. Certainly! and thank you <3 xx

  5. Aw I loved this post Amy☺ It has such a great message, I can definitely relate to all of them♥ Leonie x

  6. This was a brilliant post, I agree with every point you have mentioned and I definitely feel reassured after reading this!
    Grace xx

  7. Your comment about eating the chocolate bar but a smile on my face =o) Seeing as I am about to have a piece of chocolate =o)

  8. I loved this post, definitely such a good reminder that you don't have to have that 'perfect' image all the time. Only just came across your blog but I am definitely going to come back!
    Kate Xx